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Straight Furry Is Having Sexual Fantasies of Vore with a Male

3/3/2014

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Hello Pappa Bear,

My name is Werehog and I’m a black fur werewolf. I guess I should get to the point, I'm in to vore and lately I been vore rping with other furries. Sometimes I might come across a male, gay, or bi furry and norma vore them. I was talking to my friend one day and I told him that I vore rp with a male. My friend said that was kinda gay. Now I’m not gay or bi or anything but is that gay for me to vore rp with other male furries?

Werehog the Werewolf  (age 17)

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Dear Werehog,

What an interesting question, hmmm. If you’ll bear with me, for the sake of my readers who might not know what vore is, it is the (usually) sexual fantasy of consuming or being consumed by one’s lover. There are two kinds of vore (short for vorarephilia—sometimes mistakenly spelled voraphelia): soft and hard. In soft vore, the fantasy is of eating the other person, but no real harm is done to him or her; in hard vore, there is blood fantasy or even thoughts about the person who is eaten being dissolved in stomach acids and so on. The vore can occur through the mouth (typically), but there are also sexual fantasies of penis, vagina, and anal vore. I’ve even heard of breast vore in which the victim is consumed through the nipples. (I must admit being unfamiliar with the term “norma vore,” however; maybe you meant “normal vore” as in oral?). People into the vore fantasy can either be sexually excited by the idea of eating their lovers or else they might actually prefer to be the one who is eaten.

The fantasy here has nothing to do with homo- or heterosexual desire; rather, this particular fetish has to do with desires for being dominant or submissive; it is also often tied in with macrophilia, as the person being consumed might be imagined to be small enough to be consumed by the—in comparison—giant or macro eater.

A vorarephilia fetishist can be straight, bi, or gay. So, in and of itself, it is not an indicator of sexual preference. But, if you are a male and your fantasy about vore usually is about eating another male, that could be an indication of your sexual desires; similarly, if you fantasized about eating a female and you were male, you would more likely be straight.

It sounds to Papabear that you usually “consume” females, but sometimes you run across males and fantasize about them. This could be because you are in sexual need and, if there are no females available, any port in a storm will do; it could mean that you are straight with a bit of an urge to experiment; or it could mean you’re bi or have deeper homosexual tendencies that are still largely subconscious. This is something that you should explore further to decide how you really feel and what is right for you. Again, vore in and of itself doesn’t indicate you are gay, but your preferences for a submissive lover in this fantasy just might.

Hope that helps,

Papabear

4 Comments
Yogi
3/3/2014 12:57:42 am

Wasn't Norma Vore, the woman who unionized the furry workers?

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Papabear
3/3/2014 01:02:50 am

*facepaws* silly bear

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Werehog the Werewolf
3/10/2014 01:18:36 pm

Sorry I meant to put normal vore :)

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Diamond Man
3/3/2014 06:17:04 am

To me, "Vore" is something spiritual, I heard somewhere that it's like another sexual thing, like kissing, as it's mainly an idea about something. xD But it probably depends what I mean by "spiritual", like some is probably made as threats or something.

Since it's like some very personal thing, I always hate it how people view "vore" as something abusive it's self when really (Usually in fantasy), it can be consent and selfless.

As for orientation, I do view it as part of it but it's very hard to tell when it comes to Gay, Bi, Straight, etc. I guess I could say that, if you don't feel Gay, or any other, then your not. ;)

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