Hello, Everyfur,
Papabear's inbox is once more running on empty, so I thought I'd chat about something important to me. Recently, I received an email from Chion Wolf, producer of "The Colin McEnroe" show, which is broadcast on WNPR in Connecticut. They are doing a show about the "furry lifestyle" before FurFright. As she writes: Hi there! I'm a producer for the Colin McEnroe Show on WNPR in Connecticut, and we're doing a radio show on Furry culture before a Furry event at the end of October - We'd love to get some more voices on the show to tell our audience about the Furry lifestyle. There was a library here in Connecticut that recently said that Furries aren't welcome! We wanted to take that opportunity to do a show and educate some folks. Are you available to call in? Or know of someone else, or anyone in Connecticut? We're still waiting to hear back from the people organizing FurFright 2012. Thanks in advance! I wrote back that I would be happy to talk on the show because I strongly believe that we should not hide from the media. Principally, what I wish to emphasize to Ms. Wolf (with a name like that, she should be a furry!) is that there is no such thing as a "furry lifestyle." That furries are a diverse group and do not share a "lifestyle" of any sort. You know and I know what Ms. Wolf is referring to when she labels the community this way, and I find it offensive. No two furries are alike. The only thing we ALL share is our interest in anthropomorphic characters. After that, we are a mixed bag--young, greymuzzle, gay, straight, religious, atheist, male, female, fursuiters, nonfursuiters, artists, nonartists, etc. etc. Of course, we'll have to address the whole furporn thing to which my response is that the furry community is comprised of sexually active people who enjoy sex like anyone else. Next question. I'm really sick of the outside community--mundanes, if you will--always try to label us and pigeonhole us into something that will be titillating so that they can have a story that gets them viewers or listeners. I'm not sure if Ms. Wolf will still invite me to her panel or not, but if she does, let me know what things you would like me to talk about with her. Write me at [email protected]. --Papabear
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chiaroscuro
10/2/2012 01:43:00 am
It looks as if I'll be making an in-studio appearance for the recording of the show. I encourage longtime fans such as Papabear to call in; I gently encourage brand new furries not to. Speaking with the media can be a tricky thing; I've been in the fandom for 20 years, convention staff for over a dozen, I'm glib and full of fandom-positive quotes and figures-- and I'm still going to be nervous about making myself and the fandom look poor on the radio.
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Papabear
10/2/2012 01:57:30 am
Good luck! I agree that, if you don't know what you're talking about because you are new to the fandom, you probably shouldn't talk to the media about it. You should also strive to paint the fandom in the positive light it deserves.
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Diamond Man
10/3/2012 02:08:30 pm
Some furries seem to believe that there "Furry Lives" are life styles, honestly, if they want to believe that, it's great and maybe true..
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Papabear
10/4/2012 01:40:36 am
I think you are correct that some furries get so caught up in this that they believe they are living a unique lifestyle. But the thing is that there is no single "furry lifestyle" because furries are so diverse: from hobbyists and literature enthusiasts to otherkin and therians and everything in between, there is not a consistent single all-encompassing lifestyle. I'm not sure what this might even be. Is the lifestyle about fursuiting? That doesn't work because most furries don't have a fursuit. Is it about playing furry games or being on Second Life? Again, not everyone does that. So, I just don't get it.
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Diamond Man
10/4/2012 02:36:38 am
Not so sure if therians and otherkin is a lifestyle. To some, some believe they were born with it in Spirit or something. And I may have that belief my self. ;) Leave a Reply. |
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