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He Cheated, but Be Careful of a Snap Judgement

12/9/2012

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Hello,

I have a problem. Not too long ago I stumbled across my mate’s messages and he was messaging his ex mate saying he loved him and he ended up Yiffing him (online). I confronted my mate. He told me he was off the pills that he takes and he messed up and after nights of fighting things have settled down slightly. I have been mad at him still and feel stabbed in the back. He's stopped contacting him as far as I know but I'm having a hard time getting over this... I'm having a hard time trusting him. I have been yelling at him a lot still and have these moments where I just want him to go away :/ but I still love him. I just can't trust him like I use to. What should I do?

--Blade

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Hi, Blade,

May I ask a quick question? It sounds like your mate was taking some kind of drug for psychological reasons and he only contacted his ex while he was off the drugs. Did he contact him while he was ON the drugs? Did he do this more than once?

Thanks for the clarification. Let me know and I'll write again soon.

Papabear

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Yes he was off his medication when he started to contact him and no he didn't have any other messages before he said he was off them and no he hasn't done this more than once. It's the first time he's done this.

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Blade,

Well, then, if it were me, I would chalk up the whole incident to the lack of medication and forgive him. Don't you think so? It's not fair to be mad at someone when they are not in their right mind.

Papabear

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Ya I guess I'm just so use to depending on him for everything I thought he would of made a better choice but I understand. Thanks.
1 Comment
Eyon
12/9/2012 02:53:46 pm

Aye.. It's crazy out there in the world

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