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13 Year Old Wants to Get into Fursuiting

5/11/2017

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Hello!

I found out about furries a few months ago, and I've fallen in love with it. I now would really like a fursuit. The problem is I haven't told my parents about it and fursuits cost so much, so I cant afford one. I'm thinking about making my own as I'm relatively good at DIY but first I need to tell them about it and get permission to make (and have help) one. Also materials cost a lot, so I'd need to borrow/earn some cash. I was wondering if you could give me an idea on how to tell them and if DIYing is the best approach for a beginner? I'm thinking of just making a partial suit to start.

Many many thanks.

Zagu (age 13)

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Hi, Zagu,

A partial is a good idea, especially since you are 13 and still growing. One way to go with partials is to browse FurBuy (https://www.furbuy.com/listings/cat98.html) and look for stuff that could be fairly cheap. You can also buy fur and other sewing supplies on FurBuy. Other useful sights you might check out:

https://www.fursuitsupplies.com/
https://www.thedealersden.com/

In the meantime, sure, start learning to sew! A valuable skill. Can your parents help you learn to sew? I would advise that, instead of coming out right up front that you want to do furry stuff, just tell them you want to sew and learn how to make costumes (Halloween, mascots, etc.) It's also useful to learn how to sew clothing and accessories (both for daily use and for furry stuff). You can have a lot of fun with it! (I wish I  could sew!).

Good Luck!
Papabear
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Troj
5/11/2017 12:36:55 pm

I've started learning how to build fursuits, too!

The fursuit builder Matrices has created a wonderful series of fursuit building tutorials: http://www.matrices.net/tutorials.htm

I've also been able to find various types of tutorials through Youtube. It can sometimes be helpful to observe how different people tackle the same type of project.

I've also been able to get advice and help from local furries. In my area, there's even a once-a-month crafting circle where we all get together at the library and work on our projects. Perhaps Zagu could get together with classmates or neighborhood friends at school, at the public library, or at someone's house?

If Zagu has any hobby, yarn, or craft shops nearby, those places may offer classes or host crafting or knitting circles.

Good luck!

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Papabear
5/23/2017 04:44:26 pm

Thank you for your helpful reply, Troj!

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ScarTheFur
5/25/2017 06:27:41 pm

I didn't see matrices in the list so I was gonna mention it, but it appears Troj beat me lol oh well. That's good though because it means there are more people willing to pitch in with comments to help out. :)

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