Home-schooled Teen Furry Is Feeling a Bit Isolated

Hi Papabear,

Since 3 years ago I noticed that I haven't done anything with my life. The only things I do are home school, piano, gaming, and drawing. I don't have any friends, except a few from a big online gaming platform.

Here recently I've been wanting to join a forum, like one for people who are also interested in the furry hobby, and I ask you if you know of anything good. I was originally on FA (not a great site for minors; I was 13) and I didn't like the site, but that was the only one I knew. I would be looking for friends in real life, but I don't go out much. Love too, though.

I'm not that great at writing, so I'm going to leave it off there. One extra question though: Does dragnuki sound good as a combo word of dragon and tanuki?

Fern the Dragon Tanuki

* * *

Hi, Fern,

I think that the safest places for you right now at your age would be mainstream social media such as Facebook that restricts porn and other adult stuff. For example, on Facebook there is a group called Clean, Straight Furries ((2) Clean, Straight Furries | Facebook) that should be quite safe. I believe they are fine with minors joining, and they are fine with LGBTQ people despite the title of the group (I'm a member despite being gay). There are over 5,000 members in that group, so it should be a pretty safe place to start.

As for "not doing anything with your life," you're only 16, so give yourself a break. Sounds like you have a lot on your plate, including school, piano, art, and gaming. Since you're home schooled, you probably spend a bit too much time at home. I would recommend you try to find some outside activities of some kind, whether that is sport, charity work, or simply finding a social club of some sort. You need to get out of the house more, I think, and online furry activities will not help much with that. It's much easier to make friends if you're actually meeting people face-to-face in the real world.

As to the last question, yes, dragnuki sounds like a portmanteau of dragon and tanuki. There's nothing wrong with that.

Hope that helps!

Stay Fuzzy!

Papabear​